Archive for March, 2008

You Could Do More by Bob Perks

Monday, March 17th, 2008

There’s
so much to be learned from those who have lost so much. We find
strength in seeing how someone wins their battle against cancer. We
applaud those labeled handicapped who, against all odds, not only run
the race but win it. We love the stories of the all too young or much
too old who do the seemingly impossible.
 
This might not rank up there with one of those awe-inspiring
stories, but it awakened in me the spirit to keep on trying just when I
needed it.
 
I was visiting a friend who works at a medical center just outside
of town. He had asked me to get involved with a fundraising project for
equipment they needed. I came to tell him I couldn’t do any more than I
did last year. I just didn’t have the time. 
 
We had been sitting in the waiting area just down the hall from
one of the therapy rooms.  After talking for a few minutes, he was
called away.

"This might take some time," he said. "Think about getting more involved. I’ll be right back."
 
"Well, I just don’t think I can," I replied as he walked away.
 
Off in the distance I could hear music playing. My curiosity brought me to the doorway of what appeared to be an exercise room.
 
"Excuse us!" I heard from around the corner.
 
"Oh, I’m sorry!" I said as I stepped back into the hall.
 
"We’ve got a train here," the voice repeated, "Excuse us!"
 
Sure enough, five or six wheel chairs and one bed came rolling
out. Each one commandeered by a hospital aide and occupied by smiling
patients.
 
"Looks like you had fun," I said to one in passing.
 
"We’re trying!" an older man replied.
 
When it appeared to be safe, I slowly made my way into the room.
There were floor mats, platforms, small hand weights and exercise balls
scattered throughout.
 
Thinking I was alone, I was startled when I heard someone say, "Is she gone?"
 
"Oh, I’m sorry I didn’t see you there," I said.  I looked to my right and saw a man peering at me from behind some equipment.
 
"Is she gone?"
 
"Is who gone?" I asked.
 
"The drill sergeant!" the young man replied. "She said she’d be
back for me. She wanted me to keep exercising, but I can’t. She pushes
too hard."
 
Then out of nowhere I heard someone say, "You could do more!"
 
We both looked around and couldn’t find where the voice was coming
from. Then from around the corner in the far left side of the room a
man appeared. "I said you could do more," he repeated.
 
The deep, resounding voice presented itself as a voice of
authority. The stature of the man backed it up. He was of average
height but broad in the shoulders, with a muscular build.
 
"That’s easy for you to say," the young man told him.
 
"Oh, is it?" the man said, and then walking toward the younger man, he said, "Nothing
worthwhile is easy."
 
The young man still lying on the floor mat turned toward me and said, "Sir, could help me up?"
 
My view of him had been partially blocked by a stack of foam
blocks. I responded, "Sure, I’ll give you a hand."  As I came closer to
him, I choked on my words.
 
He had no hands. His arms were tightly bandaged and covered at the elbow.
 
"Oh, I’m sorry…" I began to stammer.
 
"You could do more," the other man repeated. I backed off as he took a stance right over the young man on the mat.
 
"I can’t do more!" the young man shouted. "Look at me!" He raised both arms above him.
 
Then, in a moment I will never forget, the man standing over him
appeared to reach down to help him, but instead raised both legs of his
trousers. He was standing on two stainless steel prostheses.
 
"You could do more," he repeated, now in a softer, reassuring tone.
 
I quietly retreated from the room. As I neared the doorway, I could hear them both talking about their challenges.
 
Soon my friend returned. "Okay, now what were you saying? You were a great help to me last year. I’m counting on you," he said.
 
Glancing back at the exercise room, I turned to him and said, "I could do more."
 
My experience that day has me taking inventory of my own life. There is
so much more I could be doing.

All in a Day’s Work By: Naomi Rhode

Thursday, March 6th, 2008

He was admitted to emergency receiving and placed on the cardiac floor. Long hair, unshaven, dirty, dangerously obese, with a black motorcycle jacket tossed on the bottom shelf of the stretcher, he was an outsider to this sterile world of shining terrazzo floors, efficient uniformed professionals, and strict infection control procedures. Definitely an untouchable.

The nurses at the station looked wide-eyed as this mound of humanity was wheeled by, each glancing nervously at Bonnie, the head nurse. “Let this one not be mine to admit, bathe and tend to . . .” was their pleading, unspoken message.

One of the true marks of a leader, a consummate professional, is to do the unthinkable. To tackle the impossible. To touch the untouchable. It was Bonnie who said, “I want this patient myself.” Highly unusual for a head nurse—unconventional—but the stuff out of which human spirits thrive, heal and soar.

As she donned her latex gloves and proceeded to bathe this huge, very unclean man, her heart almost broke. Where was his family? Who was his mother? What was he like as a little boy? She hummed quietly as she worked. It seemed to ease the fear and embarrassment she knew he must be feeling.

And then on a whim she said, “We don’t have time for back rubs much in hospitals these days, but I bet one would really feel good. And it would help you relax your muscles and start to heal. That is what this place is all about . . . a place to heal.”

The thick, scaly, ruddy skin told a story of an abusive lifestyle: probably lots of addictive behavior with food, alcohol and drugs. As she rubbed those taut muscles, she hummed and prayed. Prayed for the soul of a little boy grown up, rejected by life’s rudeness and striving for acceptance in a hard, hostile world.

The finale was warmed lotion and baby powder. Almost laughable—such a contrast to this huge, foreign surface. As he rolled over onto his back, tears ran down his cheeks and his chin trembled. With amazingly beautiful brown eyes, he smiled and said in a quivering voice, “No one has touched me for years. Thank you. I am healing.”

Games I spend so much time for.. :)

Sunday, March 2nd, 2008

Wedding Dash

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Diner Dash :: Hometown Hero

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Diner Dash 2 :: Restaurant Rescue

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